Guys listen uppppp (:

Okay....So I had too. Have you guys heard of Weheartit.com ? Cause Im LEGIT addicted. I dont even stay up on facebook anymore.. Im just on that website were there is photography for absolutely everything. Its amazing.

They have these little tidbits of advice for "Bros" (as in guys.) And they are actually cute. So Im just going to read off a few cause I find them a little humorous and they could be quite helpful for some of the clueless guys out there. They're called BroTips. And for us girls, they made HoeTips, lmao check it out? Go for it. WARNING: Possibility of explicit content.

Here are my favorites :)

Brotip #23: Live everyday like your Glenn Coco. <3 - FAVORITE. From my all time favorite movie.

Brotip #116: "Good morning texts" are legit. Surprise her with one every so often; I promise she loves it.

Brotip #67: Chicks go crazy for beastly hugs. That one armed shit makes you look like a little bitch.

Brotip #102: Dont judge people by their music.

Brotip #1: There is a 99.9999 % chance you are awesome, act like it.

Brotip #12: Expect to meet your soulmate everytime you walk through the door. One day you will.

Brotip #7: Chicks love smiley faces. :)

Brotip #6: If you dont stand by your standards, you dont have any.

Brotip #305: If you cant win an argument, correct their grammar instead.

Brotip #122: She wants to talk to you as badly as you want to talk to her, shes waiting for you text bro. 

Brotip #19: Who is your best friend of the same gender? Would you bang this person? No? Great, now you finally understand the friend zone. Move the fuck on.

Brotip #143: Be outgoing. No one is looking for someone who's only traits are "shy" or "sad" .

Brotip #195: The more you say "I love you" and the more people you say it too, the less it means. Respect that shit bro.

Brotip #197: If your old enough to vote, your to old to wear Abercrombie. At least switch to Hollister.

Brotip #202: Dont believe everything you hear. Theres NO WAY its always their last piece of gum, come on now.

Brotip #225: Treat everything you do as if there is no fucking way you can fail. 

Brotip #224: No matter how hard you work, always party harder.

Brotip #127: Dont live like today is your last day, thats dumb cause then you'd be like, crying. Live like its today and today is AWESOME!

Brotip #206: Just fuckin' read more books.

Brotip #309: Chicks love musicians. They really do.

Brotip #104: Girls dont like "jerks". Theres alot more to the guys they date than that label. They like rad guys. And thats okay cause your rad.

Brotip #43: Stop dating your Bro's exes. If you want their aftertaste that badly, you can just blow them and get it fresh from the source.

Brotip #205: Life will let you down. People will let you down. But food? Food will never let you down.

Brotip #32: Dont be "that guy".

Brotip #228: Regret is way worse than rejection.

Brotip #165: Life is freaking awesome but not if your too afraid to enjoy it.

Brotip #207: There isnt an argument that isnt won with a great timed "cool story bro" (:

Brotip #194: Its okay to have an opinion but you dont have to be a dick about it.

Ill post more later for you lovelies. :)

the way i am?

If your going to fall in love with me, its only fair that you know what youre falling in love with.

Your falling in love with my insecurities, my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. Your falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession, my tendency to be too clingy. You fall in love with my troubled past, my hopes and dreams, and how im a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you will fall in love with my self hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody would ever love me.

But however, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will light up when I see you, the way Ill text you in the morning to have a great day. Your falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me despite my thinking that is impossible.

But Im waiting for you.

ITS A BEAUTIFUL DAY IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD!

Uhm, jk its like 2:12 am but HEY thats how I feel at the moment.

Have you ever had like, your own personal medicine? Not like NyQuil, Prozac or Melatonin but like your own little routine or coping technique that just in an instant makes you happy? Well for me, that would be music, making paper stars, painting my nails, and driving around at night with the windows down and listening to grateful dead(haha,dont laugh,the rents were dead heads so I was bound to become one one of these days) Anyway, I havent had my iPod for like 195979017389 months. (Okay so maybe like 2, or 3 months maybe even 4) I somehow managed to get ahold of a friends last iPod before she got her itouch and ever since I've been listening to music 24/7 I have been coincidentally doing ALOT better than before (if you've caught a glimpse of my past blog posts) AND I have been making friendship bracelets!(more on that later) Creativity really kicks in when you've been grounded, eh?

I hate thinking about how there was a possibility that I could of been depressed. I know some friends that were a couple months ago and at times after I got caught up on the 3 or 4 months of music that I missed out on, I was like "Dude fuck being sad. We are just teenagers."

Why cant we just go with the flow and laugh a bunch, use manners not cause we HAVE to but because we can. Try something new(I made friendship bracelets. The embroidery floss you get is 40 cents at Hobby Lobby and friendship-bracelets.com has some freakin' neat-o patterns.) We should just trust our feelings and spend money and introduce ourself.

Dont forget to embrace messy hair and find something that never fails to make you smile. Even on your weakest days, find a reason to be strong. Find something beautiful in each day.

Wasnt it easier in the firefly catching days?

If it was summer, I would not care. My phone would be shoved in the glove box of my car. And I'd be running around with long wavy hair, shorts and flip flops on, and a killer tan. My girls and I would be staying out all night and sleeping all day.

But its not summer. And every class Im in, I just stare out the windows and count the days until it is summertime. And I stare at my phone while it mocks me. Cause while your number is deleted, I still have it memorized. And every single day I almost text you. But I know you wont reply. I know your over it. I know theres no point. But even after we broke up, you said we were going to hang out all summer. That we'd still be best friends,and I would always have a special place in your heart. Its different now. We walk by eachother at school and its like we've never even met.

Sometimes I just wanna go back to 2nd grade. When on the Saturday nights, my cousins and I stayed at my grandparents house and ran around the backyard at night barefoot catching fireflies. Cause everything was easier. We cried over breaking a bicycle instead of a broken heart. When we wanted to by like our Mother, instead of now wanting to be like Ke$ha.

Right now I have two words that I feel like. Two words that explain how I've been feeling: It hurts. And now, Im afraid of like everything. Im so dependent cause Im scared of being alone. There are certain people that arent ment to be put in your life. No matter how much you want them too, and if everything happens for a reason why do we have to be so upset after everything is over? I mean, we should just be able to stfu and move on.

Everyone feels like everyone else, just not at the same time - That makes me wonder. Do you ever think of me? Am I the first person that you think of in the morning?

We're all fucked up because everyone lies. Sometimes people will tell you they care. Sometimes people tell you that they love you. Sometimes people say that they want you. Sometimes people say they will catch you when you fall. Sometimes people say they will never hurt you. Sometimes people say they would die for you. Sometimes people say you are worth it. Sometimes people say its going to be okay. Sometimes people just HAVE to lie and fuck everything up when they show you their true colors.

Being a teenager is vastly overrated. We make all these mistakes. We are too stubborn and we dont give two shits about what our parents think. We hate school. We fight,we love,we cry, we give up on believing in a higher power. Grades don't mean anything anymore because we base our lives on music lyrics and quotes. Most importantly, we are fucking tired. We are tired of waking up every morning and having to go to school and seeing the people we hate. We get tired of waiting for the text message thats not going to come, we get tired of pretending we're fine.

I get tired of missing you every second of every day. I wish it was summer so my mind could be elsewhere.

I found you once, your lost again. Two thousand miles took what could of been.

Every word that is spoken. Every sentence that is said. Every conversation that is had. My heart breaks a little more. I wish you could feel the same pain I am feeling. The same confusion. The same frustration. I wish you could feel what I am feeling at this moment. Cause then maybe you would talk to me, cause at this very moment I dont know what Im feeling. Sometimes I'm happy you dont try and talk to me anymore. Other times I want to text you more than anything when my mom and I fight. When my brother was sick and in the hospital. When I wanted to just run away and forget everything. Us meeting? That was a blessing and a curse. While everyone laughed at me cause they said I could do much better, all your friends and even family said I was the best thing that ever happened to you.


To me it wasnt about labels. It was about me being with you. Waking up to the "Good morning beautiful" texts. Snuggling together for hours on end. Staying up late talking on the phone. It was about how there was 6 billion people in the whole world and I was sure I only wanted you. I'm still sure. Because yeah, I think other guys are hot. I try dating other guys too. But its just not the same.


I think about you alot, you often visit me in my dreams. I wonder if you think of me when you hear "wish you were here" and "mine". I wonder if you miss me at all. I wonder if you think its not too late.

Someday Came Suddenly.

You don't see many 16 year olds walking around telling people they are engaged. Truth is, for a month that's all I did. I rarely have a boyfriend,when I do get one it takes a LONG time for me to let my guard down and trust. There was this one guy, we'll call him Casper(Obviously not his real name). Casper was my duct tape to the previous and first broken heart I expirenced. We dated for 8 months. There aren't enough words in the english vocabulary to describe how perfect it was, so we can just leave it at that.

High School changes people alot. You'll sit there and lay in the grass and think "Be thankful for this moment, for this moment is your life." You'll say we are going to have this forever. You'll slow dance to 'Moment for Life' because that's how you feel. But when it suddenly ends what are you supposed to do? When people ask what heartbreak is here is the answer I give, "Heartbreak is lying on the bathroom floor at school crying with your best friend while your supposed to be in class. Heartbreak is the hole in chest thats getting bigger and the lump in your throat thats not going away. Heartbreak is having no idea how your going to get up, wipe your tears,and wonder how the hell your going to get up and walk outta that bathroom and act like everythings okay". And a couple of days ago I FINALLY had a turning point. ;

(for casper) - We leave certain parts of our lives in the past for a reason. And what we had was amazing in every way possible. But like in fairytales, all good stories come to an end. And with leaving things in the past were they belong, its better to move on because you cant wait around forever for someone, its like trying to fight fate(<---impossible) The only thing I want you to do is to go out and live life, be happy. Because for some crazy reason, I love you. Im sure I always will. The only thing thats different about me loving you then and me loving you now is now your forever in my past life. Because im moving one.

In reality though, when Im at home and I actually sit down and un-willingly think of all the memories and past, I feel shitty. Your not there when you say you will be. You laugh at me in the hallways. You make me think to myself "Was everything just a dream?" cause now your a completely different person. And every day it kills me a little more, but even on my weakest days I still get a little stronger cause one person has faith in me.

I have a question. I dont know who Im addressing this too, but the rules that apply to girl world(If your best friend cries over a guy, hes COMPLETELY off limits...ect) do they apply to guys too? Because now YOUR best friend(although hes taken) is here. He hated me when me and you dated. He convinced you to break up with me. But now hes here for me when your not. And he helps me. You've prepared me so every guy I talk to I'm terrified to take chances with. I said Im done with dating. But then heres your best friend(We'll just call him Best Friend) and I'd date Best Friend in a heart beat(And no, not to make Casper jealous. Dont worry, he already confronted me about that.).

Earlier tonight Best Friend said one day we'll be together. One day Casper will stop causing drama and let me be.But then he also says, maybe Casper and I will be together again possibly. Best friend and I talk though. We talk hours and hours on end and its like nothing even matters, nothing has even happened between Casper and I. And for awhile, Best Friend takes away the hurt.

Best Friend knows what Im going through. He went through it last year. Thats why we get along so well, he knows how I feel. Sometimes I say I wish Casper and I would of never met. That I didnt switch out of my art class to study hall. But Best Friend says if I didnt, then I wouldnt of ever met Best Friend. And everything happens for a reason, and that we shouldnt have regrets cause If I never dated Casper, I wouldnt know Best Friend at all.

Best Friend says someday we can be together(we cant right now.) I say maybe in a million years and a day. Best Friend says someday came suddenly.
All I know is, Im not letting this go. Im not messing it up either. All I know is this is my second shot at happiness cause after everything in the past year, now Im almost afraid to be happy.

Hi. Im Grace. I tape fortunes from fortune cookies on my door.

Okay, so thats not usually how I introduce myself. But thats just a little tidbit about me(Theres alot of tidbits, more on that later). Im very supersticious actually.

So how did you stumble upon this blog? Because quite frankly, this has nothing to do with Algebra even though the name is "bored in Algebra". I often bring the great invention of technology into class(iTouch<3) and end up writing something because I get inspired at the most random times. Algebra really has nothing to do with this so if you were looking for help on your homework or something youve came to wrong place. But stay! Because your homework can wait.

So I love to write. Reading and Writing are my life. I would be so LOST without my notebooks, but with the notebooks at least I can get lost in a translation of thoughts and dreams, and while drifting away in those thoughts now you can drift away with me.

Anyway, Im Grace. Let me get this out there. While im sitting at my desk with this laptop listening to Taylor Swifts "Fearless", I have to say Ive always loved the whole open fields and grass everywhere and sunsets. The kind of scenes that Taylor Swift portrays in her songs like "Tim McGraw" and "Come In With The Rain".

That somewhat ties into the theme of "Staring out the Window of Possibilities" because outside of Algebra class, right out that window, there is a whole world out there full of possibilites.